Your Existing Situation
This represents a barrier between the compensatory colors which precede it and the remaining colors.
Your Stress Source
The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as you have an unsatisfied need to ally yourself with others whose standards are as high as your own, and want to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to your self-sufficiency because of the restraint you normally impose on yourself. Since you want to demonstrate the unique quality of your own character, you try to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal your fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize your behaviour with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference you really long for the approval and esteem of others.
Your Restrained Characteristics
The situation is preventing you from establishing yourself, but you feel you must take the best of things as they are.
Circumstances are restrictve and hampering, forcing you to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.
Your Desired Objective
Long for a tender and sympathetic bond and for a situation of idealized harmony. Have an imperative need for tenderness and affection. Susceptible to anything esthetic.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and you have distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. You attempt to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as you desire them to be.
Your Actual Problem #2
Greatly impressed by the unique, by originality, and by individuals of outstanding characteristics. Try to emulate the characteristics you admire and to display originality in your own personality.
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